It doesn’t really matter what type of community you talk about – it’s hard to feel like a member if you don’t feel a sense of belonging. Chapter six in Tharon Howard’s Design to Thrive is all about belonging, which is the ever-important “B” of his RIBS heuristic. Dr. Howard describes belonging as something which can be generated in a community via “shared mythologies, shared stories of origin, shared symbols, and the cultural codes embedded in those symbols” (130). What seems important here is the concept of sharing. We identify ourselves in a particular way based, in large part, on the things we share with others or don’t share with others. I am a member of the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.). I consider myself a member of this large, religious community less because of the particular church into which I was confirmed (at about 14) or baptized (at about 1), but more because I share particular beliefs with the other members of the denomination. In other words, belonging is very much a cognitive exercise. It is certainly something I need to feel, but it is especially something I need to consciously acknowledge and accept.
Dr. Howard also points out that those things which community designers include in online communities serve an “epideictic function” (130). Something is epideictic when it functions rhetorically or, more specifically, when it is intended to impress. Thus, being attentive to belonging requires designers to convince members of something. The interesting outcome, however, is of what we (prospective community members) are being convinced. It seems to me that it is and essentially must be one of two different things: that we are a valued member of a community or that we want to be a valued member. I say “must” because both rhetorical movements are important. Dr. Howard does not outline this explicitly, but the implications of his suggested techniques and his discussion of initiation rituals and stories of origin seem clear.
The first rhetorical move is fairly obvious. An online community must convince me that I belong for me to experience a sense of belonging. Stories of origin, special rituals, symbols and codes are all elements of a community that can make it exclusive. Exclusivity is necessary for a sense of belonging because exclusivity defines who is and who is not a member of the community. By knowing/having/doing the things required of a community member, I can begin to identify myself as such a member and gain that sense of belonging. This isn’t anything new or special. Once again, online communities function in much the same way real-life communities do. For example, I’ve recently begun rock climbing, and rock climbers are definitely a community unto their own. I am clearly a novice, but the more I learn about the sport, technique, gear, etc, and the more often I participate, the less I feel like an outsider. In fact, the more I climb, the more I begin to identify myself as a recreational climber and as rock climbing as a part of my normal routine. The same can be said about the community of coupon-clippers on sites like afullcup.com. I briefly explored these sites and discovered that an enormous amount of time, practice, and know-how were required to become a real active member. In fact, although the community did not require me to do anything to use the site or to ask questions, I never felt a sense of belonging (I was too consumed by a sense of bewilderment). I did not identify myself with the other users of the site because I simply did not understand their language or the majority of their practices. Had I invested the time necessary to be versed in couponing, my participation in the community may have felt different.
Of course, all of this is a moot point if the online community fails to attract members, which brings us to our second point. While the techniques and concepts Dr. Howard offers, from leveling to origin stories, are vehicles for forming group identity, they are also incentive to adopt group identity. Once again, the key word is exclusivity. Like the World of Warcraft example given in Design to Thrive, giving people the opportunity to join elite communities can make that sense of belonging all the more desirable. I go rock climbing and see practiced climbers complete difficult routes and gain the praise of the rest of the community. I attempt to benefit from the many coupon sites online and find users that manage to save upwards of 80% on their groceries. These individuals are members who belong – they’ve got chops, and they’ve got the knowledge, background, and track-record that make them identifiable as community members. Ultimately, belonging comes down to not just belonging in the literal or logical sense (i.e. people who hate rock climbing, for example, do not exactly belong in the rock climbing community). It is about community response. Mythologies, leveling, origin stories and the like are useless unless the application is inherently social because we value not simply being a particular way (i.e. being someone with the skills or potential) but being seen by others in a particular way. Thus, it is not simply a matter of identifying with a story or gaining a sense of belonging for myself. It is equally as important that others likewise see and identify me as a member who belongs.